“Working with Lori is like a breath of fresh air! She is attentive, professional, and reliable. She goes above and beyond at all times and truly cares about the success of the businesses she serves. Lori is absolutely wonderful to work with and an asset to any business owner!”
Janet A., Wedding Photographer
About The Social Attendant
Hey there, I’m Lori Losee — your Virtual Maid of Honor
for all things wedding business!
After launching my wedding planning and design business in 2005, I had the absolute joy of helping hundreds of couples bring their dream weddings to life. Along the way, other wedding pros began reaching out — asking how to grow their own businesses, manage social media, and build an online presence that actually gets noticed.
That’s when The Social Attendant was born in 2020 — to help talented wedding creatives like you show up confidently online, stay organized behind the scenes, and fall back in love with your business again.
Running a wedding business is no joke (trust me, I’ve been there!). Between the client work, inboxes, and never-ending to-do lists, it’s easy to lose the creative spark that made you start in the first place. That’s where I come in.
I help you take a deep breath, delegate the overwhelm, and get back to the joy of what you do best — creating unforgettable experiences for your couples.
At The Social Attendant, our mission is simple:
✨ Inspire creativity.
✨ Streamline your systems.
✨ Help you thrive — not just survive — in your business.
With nearly two decades of hands-on experience in the wedding industry, I bring both heart and strategy to every project — from blogging and SEO to social media and admin support.
Let’s get you back on track, re-inspired, and excited about your business again!
HERE ARE SOME FUN FACTS ABOUT ME:
I was the Hula Hoop Champ at the Washington State Fair when I was 8!
I’m recently become an empty nester as both of my boys attend Washington State University (Go Cougs!)
I’m a Disney adult, and my favorite Disney Princess is Belle.
Content Creator Rachel
Rachel currently works in the educational field. She has her BA in Elementary Ed. and her MS in Special Education. She originally met Lori in 2008, while she was a Beta Rho Alpha Phi. She worked as an intern, assistant, and then wedding planner with Elegant Affairs from 2011-2015. She currently resides in Texas with her husband, 2 daughters, and three dogs. In her free time, she loves to stay active, hike, read, and head to the beach!
Fun Facts about me:
I’ve danced hula since I was 7.
I’m an Army Spouse. My husband has been active duty for almost 17 years
Our largest dog weighs 120lbs
Content Creator Ally
Ally graduated from Oklahoma City University with a BS in Dance Management and has her MBA with an emphasis in Marketing from Emporia State University. Ally works in Human Resources and Recruiting professionally. As a newlywed Ally loves helping Wedding Professionals promote their services from a bride's point of view. She lives in Kansas City with her husband and two dogs. Ally is passionate about baking, projects around her home, making things pretty and practical, cheering on the KC Chiefs, and Peloton.
Fun Facts about me:
I have danced on the Radio City Music Hall stage.
I've been snow skiing since I was 5.
My favorite movie is P.S. I Love You.
What We Do
Because every wedding pro deserves to feel confident, organized, and seen online.
At The Social Attendant, we help you:
💌 Show up strategically on social media with done-for-you management and content planning that actually converts
🗂️ Streamline your systems with virtual assistant support that saves hours (and sanity)
💡 Grow with clarity and confidence through business coaching tailored to the wedding industry
Ready to see how it all fits together?
Our Team

“I have used Lori to do my social media posting
for two years. I have always been pleased with
her choice of images and the text she chooses.
She does a great job interacting with followers on my page.
Thank you Lori!”
Laura W., Wedding & Make-up Stylist