What It's Like to Work with The Social Attendant: From Inquiry to “OMG, Why Didn’t I Do This Sooner?
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Hiring support doesn’t mean you’re failing. It means you’re stepping into the CEO role your business needs.
The Social Attendant offers custom solutions based on your business goals, workflow, and brand voice.
From onboarding to delivery, our process is seamless, strategic, and supportive — so you can show up fully as the wedding pro you are.
If you’re a wedding creative feeling like your to-do list is staging a hostile takeover of your sanity, allow us to introduce ourselves. Hi! We’re The Social Attendant — the go-to virtual assistant and social media team for creative wedding professionals who are done doing it all.
Founded by Lori, a wedding industry vet who’s been knee-deep in bouquets and bridal timelines since 2005, The Social Attendant is the behind-the-scenes magic you didn’t know you were missing. And today, we’re giving you a behind-the-curtain look at exactly what it’s like to work with us. From inquiry to onboarding to watching your calendar fill with dreamy, aligned clients — we’ve got you.
So, What Is The Social Attendant?
We’re your Virtual Maid of Honor for your business. That means we handle the day-to-day, back-end, social media, content creation, and client management tasks that keep your wedding business humming, so you can spend more time in your zone of genius (aka styling stunning tablescapes or capturing first looks).
We work with planners, florists, photographers, stationers, venues, and creatives just like you who are ready to get out of the weeds and step into CEO energy.
So, What Is The Social Attendant?
We’re your Virtual Maid of Honor for your business. That means we handle the day-to-day, back-end, social media, content creation, and client management tasks that keep your wedding business humming, so you can spend more time in your zone of genius (aka styling stunning tablescapes or capturing first looks).
We work with planners, florists, photographers, stationers, venues, and creatives just like you who are ready to get out of the weeds and step into CEO energy.
Step 1: The Inquiry Form
Your journey with us starts with one little form — and one giant sigh of relief.
Visit our website and fill out the quick & easy inquiry form. We’ll ask you about your business, your goals, what you're currently struggling with, and what services you might be interested in.
Pro Tip: Be honest! This is your moment to say, “I haven’t posted on Instagram in 3 weeks and my inbox gives me hives.” We’ve heard it all, and we’re here to help.
Within 48 business hours, you’ll hear from us to schedule your consult.
Step 2: The Consultation Call — A Judgment-Free Zone
During your free 30-minute discovery call, you’ll chat with Lori herself. And trust us, this is not your average sales call.
Lori brings nearly two decades of wedding industry experience and a zero-fluff approach. She’ll walk through your current workflow, dig into what’s working (and what’s absolutely not), and help identify where we can take tasks off your plate.
You’ll talk about:
Where you need the most support
Which services best align with your goals
Your content strategy (or lack thereof)
What success looks like for YOU
If it’s a match, we’ll send you a custom proposal.
Step 3: Signing On & Onboarding — Smooth As Butter
Once you accept your proposal, it’s go time!
We’ll send:
Your service agreement
First invoice
Welcome guide
Onboarding questionnaire
You’ll also receive a customized onboarding experience that might include:
A brand voice audit
Access to shared content folders
A project management board (we love ClickUp!)
Communication guidelines & schedules
The goal? To make sure we’re aligned and organized from the jump.
Step 4: Choose Your Services
Here’s where the real fun begins. You can select from:
✨ Social Media Management
Done-for-you captions
Strategic posting
Reels and story templates
Monthly content calendars
✨ Content Creation
Blog writing
Instagram carousels
Reels scripting
Email newsletters
✨ Virtual Assistant Services
Inbox management
Calendar coordination
Client communication
Proposal creation
✨ Timeline Creation & Client Onboarding Support
✨ Wedding Day Content Creation (for vendors!)
Behind-the-scenes footage
Reels-ready video and photo content
Real-time vendor tagging
All of this is curated to YOU. We don’t believe in cookie-cutter packages, so your support will be as personalized as your Pinterest board.
Step 5: We Get to Work While You Get to Breathe
Once we’re in your corner, things start shifting fast. We start showing up in your business so you can:
Book more aligned clients
Show up consistently online
Stop replying to emails at midnight
Spend more time doing what you love
We communicate weekly, check in monthly, and continuously adjust based on your needs and goals.
We believe in:
No shame.
No fluff.
No doing it all alone.
Just smart, strategic support from a team who gets you.
Why Clients Say “Why Didn’t I Do This Sooner?”
Here’s what we hear again and again:
“I feel 10 pounds lighter.”
“My Instagram finally feels like ME.”
“I booked 3 dream clients this month.”
“I can actually go on vacation without bringing my laptop.”
Hiring The Social Attendant doesn’t just help you grow your business — it helps you get your life back.
At The Social Attendant, we love all things social media and helping wedding professionals take their businesses to the next level. Lori was a wedding planner for 19 years and has been helping wedding creatives like you since 2020 with their social media management, consulting/coaching, and virtual assistant tasks . Let’s chat about how we can help!